Dividing the Family Home in a Tennessee Divorce: Sell, Keep, or Refinance?

December 17, 2025

Dividing the Family Home in a Tennessee Divorce: Sell, Keep, or Refinance?

When couples divorce in Tennessee, one of the most emotionally charged and financially significant issues involves what happens to the family home. Deciding whether to sell, keep, or refinance the property requires a clear understanding of Tennessee’s property division laws and your personal financial situation.


Understanding Property Division in Tennessee


Tennessee follows equitable distribution laws, meaning marital assets are divided fairly but not always equally. The family home is typically considered marital property if it was purchased or paid for during the marriage. However, if one spouse owned the home before marriage or inherited it, part of its value may still be treated as separate property—especially if marital funds or efforts contributed to its upkeep or appreciation.


Option 1: Selling the Home


Selling the home is often the simplest option. The proceeds can be used to pay off the mortgage and then split between the spouses according to the court’s determination or mutual agreement. This route provides both parties with a clean financial break and may help prevent ongoing disputes about property maintenance or market value changes.


Option 2: One Spouse Keeps the Home


If one spouse wishes to remain in the home—perhaps to provide stability for children—they may need to buy out the other spouse’s share. This requires a property appraisal to determine fair market value. The buyout can be achieved through cash payment, trading other marital assets, or adjusting alimony or debt division accordingly.


Option 3: Refinancing the Home


Refinancing can help one spouse keep the home while removing the other spouse’s name from the mortgage. This ensures financial independence and protects both parties’ credit. The spouse keeping the home must qualify for the new mortgage based on their individual income and credit history, which can sometimes be challenging after a divorce.


Key Considerations


  • Emotional ties: The family home often carries deep sentimental value, but decisions should be guided by long-term financial security.
  • Children’s needs: Courts may consider stability for minor children when deciding whether a spouse should keep the home.
  • Tax implications: Selling or refinancing can have tax consequences, so professional guidance is essential.


At Law Offices of Crystal Etue, PLLC, we can provide legal assistance to the Franklin public navigating property division and other divorce-related matters. Our team can help you evaluate your options and protect your financial future throughout the process.

Man fixing girl's hair on a bed. Girl in pink shirt looks down; they're in a light-filled room.
December 17, 2025
Wondering if your child can refuse visitation after divorce in Tennessee? Learn what state law says about custody, parenting plans, and your legal options. The Law Offices of Crystal Etue, PLLC helps Franklin families resolve custody disputes effectively.
Man with beard gives thumbs up, child on shoulders covering eyes, both smiling outdoors.
November 17, 2025
Learn about fathers’ custody rights in Tennessee. Discover how paternity, equal parenting laws, and the best interest standard affect your case. The Law Offices of Crystal Etue, PLLC helps fathers in Franklin protect their parental rights.
Couple smiling at each other during a candlelit dinner. Blonde woman, bearded man. Cozy, indoor setting.
October 17, 2025
Dating during divorce in Tennessee can affect custody, alimony, and property division. Learn the legal risks and smart strategies from Law Offices of Crystal Etue, PLLC serving Middle Tennessee.
A judge is writing on a piece of paper next to a gavel on a wooden table.
September 11, 2025
Learn how Tennessee courts decide alimony awards, including key factors like income, marriage length, and fault. Crystal Etue, PLLC can guide you through the process.
A man in a hat is saluting in front of an american flag.
August 11, 2025
Military divorce in Tennessee involves unique rules for custody, pensions, and deployment. Learn how to protect your rights. Crystal Etue, PLLC can help.
A woman is sitting at a table looking at a piece of paper.
July 10, 2025
Is your ex violating a Tennessee family court order? Learn your legal options for enforcement, contempt motions, and more. Crystal Etue, PLLC can help.
A close up of a judge 's gavel on a black table.
June 22, 2025
Need to modify a child support order in Tennessee? Learn what qualifies as a significant change and how the Law Offices of Crystal Etue, PLLC helps Middle Tennessee parents update support orders legally.
A stack of papers tied together with a string on a table.
May 22, 2025
Discover what assets can be included in a Tennessee prenuptial agreement. Learn how the Law Offices of Crystal Etue, PLLC helps Middle Tennessee couples protect their financial interests.
A woman is sitting on a couch taking off her wedding ring.
April 21, 2025
Wondering how long a divorce takes in Tennessee? Learn about timelines for uncontested and contested divorces and how the Law Offices of Crystal Etue, PLLC supports Middle Tennessee clients.
A judge is writing on a piece of paper next to a gavel on a wooden table.
February 20, 2025
What Are the Consequences of Failing to Pay Child Support in Tennessee?